Why Giving It Up Is The best Way to Bring it Into Your Reality
Last week I talked about goals and how they can actually hinder you if they make you feel bad when you think of them. This point needs further explaining as it really is a tipping point for you to become a master of the manifestation process.
We’ve all heard the catch phrase “let go” to the point where it’s almost become cliche. This is the unfortunate thing that happens when an idea or truth is popularized - people tend to discredit it or the deeper meaning is lost.
The truth is that letting go is very crucial in the process of manifestation. There is a lovely way of being where you have a calling on your life that pulls you, giving you purpose and meaning, yet you are detached from it’s manifestation. You love it yet you don’t need it to be happy. You embody the qualities of it already without having “IT”. You are happy with what is and at the same time you are eager for and expecting more.
The tendency is for the pendulum to swing too far in one direction. Either you are stifling your desires and not going for anything more or you need the desire too manifest in order to be happy.
The subject of “no desire” will have to be dealt with at another time. This blog post is directed to the person who has a strong desire for something and is attached to it.
Needing the result
Do you feel frustrated that you don’t have what you want? Do you think that you need the thing you want in order to be happy, successful, powerful, secure, loved, accepted, worthy, etc? That needy energy keeps it away from you.
This isn’t so strange when you really think of it. We have all experienced a needy person and felt uncomfortable in their presence. A salesman that needs the sale makes hardly any sales. You can sense it when they are talking to you that they are just trying to get something from you and you want to get away as fast as possible. Or the friend that is clingy and needs your attention or encouragement to be happy. It repels you.
There is something attractive about the person that doesn’t NEED from you. They are magnetic and you want to be near them because they are complete and fulfilled all on their own. This is the same with your desire. When you are complete and fulfilled without it, it’s drawn to you.
So let go. Think about what you perceive having the thing will give you. Will it make you happy, calm, secure, confident, peaceful, empowered, loved, worthy, alive, joyful, free, in control? …figure that out. Now whatever it is - think about how you can feel that without having "the thing."
If you think being a millionaire will make you happy, then the quality that you are after is happiness. Let go of the need for the money to be happy. Detach from that outcome. Detach your happiness from the goal of being a millionaire. Your need to be a millionaire is keeping it from you.
Now think of ways for you to be happy now. Simply focusing your attention on what you’re thankful for will take care of a huge piece of this. What are activities that you enjoy? Do those activities more often. Who do you enjoy spending time with? Spend more time with them and less time with people that make you feel lousy.
Feel happy now without being the millionaire or achieving whatever goal or thing you desire. As you develop this ability and become a being that is in control of your feeling (vibration) regardless of environment or what you do or don’t have, then you’ll be magical in your ability to manifest whatever you want.
It’s a funny trick the universe plays on us. You must develop the feelings of happiness, security, empowerment, joy, health, abundance, freedom, confidence, aliveness without the “thing” and then when you do, you get the thing. Interestingly when the thing manifests you don’t really care that much because you already were happy without it.
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